SOOTHING CRYING BABY

Soothing crying baby. Mother is the one who most understand how to work with his son. Nevertheless, we can be sure that many mothers who have difficulty when confronting a child crying especially in infancy. There are times when MOM was feeling frustrated with the cry baby.

The most powerful way to soothe crying baby is toys. Toys can be used to distract the baby, but the toys are to be selected who can move or speak. The mother should also be preparing some kind of toy because the baby will be easily bored. Distract babies can also be done by singing a song for babies.

When the baby cries do not directly accept breast-feeding. Because this will not dampen the cry of a baby, and thus will make the baby vomit or choke. The cries of these babies is a sign that they needed something from her parents.

Check the diaper whether he Pee and defecation or not. If it is not wet and she still cries then try to carry the baby. while crying, sometimes babies just need attention and affection from her parents. Then when laped, often the baby will be silent and then laughed happy because being invited to joke by her mother.

The new mood may be needed to soothe a fuss and crying baby. Cradling a baby and invite to a new place for a few minutes would be very useful to distract the baby so that her feelings would be improved. For the cry baby is also noteworthy, with more thoroughly.

If he is still crying then chances are he is hungry. Try to hold the baby to the breast. However, do not force the baby to suckle. Only closer to the baby to the nipple, if he's looking for the nipple and suck tits then she indeed hungry.

Hopefully this article useful for Soothing crying baby.

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SCOLDING CHILDREN WITH SMART WAY

Scolding children with smart way needs to be done by parents in educating children. because in educating children is that a child will be more likely to imitate what are parent do rather than obey what is said. One example of the attitude of the parents which is quite a dominant is when children are angry. Scold a child should be a last alternative for parents when they want to prevent or prohibit children doing something is not good or harm them. The frequency of children need to be avoided because rebukes the more often they dibentak, the more they are encouraged to do so as well to parents, family, relatives, friends, and anyone who interacts with them until the child is experiencing stress.

To avoid the negative assumptions about the scold the child when you don't have a better alternative than snapped, the following helpful tips you need to know and apply to Scolding children with smart way:

First, scolding children should do with smooth. For this, you do not need to remove the impression that you are hard to return children prohibit doing modifications. One thing that you have to change is the way you deliver the snaped. make a situation as relaxed as possible and choose the communication pattern and proper discussions so that the child does not have the impression that you dictate or govern it. Make your children aware of itself, that is not an act of good deed and profitable, so that your child can understand and automatically ban himself for doing the same thing.

Second, use the scolding children with effective pattern. Give your child a space to speak and present the reasons behind his actions. This will make your child feel appreciated and count so that they will easily follow what you say. Feel free to make any compromise or some sort of dispensation for the child after you discuss the matter of good deeds that he should avoid. By adjusting the age and character of the child, make your child understand that the consequences of their deeds will come back on its own. mereke Well, if you achieve success applying two steps telling this kid scolded, you got two advantages at once. The first is a good communication with your children, and the second is your child continues to be controlled and directed.

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ADDRESSING CHILD WHO LIE THEN NOT BECOME HABIT

Addressing child who lie not to become habit will be very useful to any parents because every child will find the time to behave this way. Therefore, it is necessary the right way to educate a child and get around it so that the lie will not be a habit for our children until he was an adult. To be able to address the child's attitude, however, first of all, we as parents should be able to handle up to the root of the problem. It is intended that the child is no longer exposed himself to tell a lie or at least repeat to lie again. Therefore, the need for knowledge for parents will be contributing factors may be the cause of the child lied and then determine the proper attitude toward the cause factor.

There are many reasons why a child lying. These factors can come from within the child's own and even also from external environment including the elderly. Things that might be the trigger for a child to lie among others are:

The existence of an excessive imagination of the child. We can take the example of the story in his mind that has not been fulfilled. Way of addressing a child is lying in this case, we have to give an explanation about the difference in reality and his imagination.

Besides, factor that triggers child to lie is conflict with itself or in other words the desire the child to protect itself so decided to lie. In this case we must be able to trust on child that is better if said truthfully.

From the external environment the child herself is also a trigger for lying. Don't need much because of factors that could possibly come from ourselves as parents. These factors tend to be on the ability of the child to imitate. Occasionally the child may we find the attitude of lie we we don't realize, a small example, we sent our children to say that we are not at home when the phone for us. For it, the way a child is lying facing the next is, we must accustom ourselves to be honest in the future of our children.

Furthermore, we should not immediately accuse lie without evidence. This will make children afraid or even child stress if it will be honest. We should be more open about it because it is very important for the fruit of the heart. We should be able to be a good listener to his reasons to lie and then gave the correct explanation, without having to use emotion. So that we can do in relation to the way of addressing a child who is lying.

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STRESS ON CHILD

Stress on child occur because of physical damage in form of grated on the child's brain called hippocampus that serves as a reminder, part officers emotions and navigation (a study released by journal pediatric). Stress was caused by a traumatic event or called ptsd (post traumatic stress disorder), as children were having violent physical or emotional, sexual harassment victims divorce, and so on.

As a result the child could be getting in trouble for dealing with stress, emotional disorders, anxiety suffer, and even hard to remember. Stress on the child can increase the cortisol stress hormone. In animals, the increase in these hormones could lead to dead of hippocampal cells.

The study was done by a team from stanford medical center university would be held on 15 child afflicted symptoms ptsd after the experience physical violence, emotions, divorce parents, sexual harassment etc that had happened. One of the researchers team and also who heads the research named dr victor carrion said that research was aimed at impact studies stress heavy happened on child and the cause of boy who can endure or not against stress they underwrite.

Several studies proved that an adult who easily agitated and depression is affected by experience related a boy pstd and also affected by genes and environment. And found that as many as one of ten people surveyed admitted has experienced pstd whole life.

Then, dr. carrion said that a boy who be suffering pstd or traumatic event should be treated with good and fitting to help the child is forget all trauma there. But, therapy is less effective if stress experienced by the boy influential on physical brain in the part have function as processor information. So, the most right to do is with raising and educate a with affectionate to could impact good for growth and child development later.

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MOTHER VOICE CALMING TENSE NERVES

mother voice calming tense nerves. A study of some experts have pointed out that the mother has the incredible wonders, in the results of the study showed that the mother's voice can calm the nerves that tense thereby eliminating stress experienced by someone.

Much kindness we can find of fear the mother. At least from a study which revealed that mother voice calming the tense nerves. In addition, only able to call often have the same effect as mother hug.

Researchers from the University of Wisconsin-Madison could explain why MOM is often became the first person you are looking for in tough times, even after Your adulthood and independent living.

Researchers from the american check role oxytocin, hormone engaged in sex, sexual attraction, trust and confidence. Hormone known with ' a hug chemical substance' this released into the blood during childbirth.

These hormones stimulate the production of breast milk. In addition, these hormones are also soaks the brain during the process of breastfeeding. It is believed to strengthen the relationship of mother and daughter. In addition, these hormones are believed to be the main key to allow the mother calmed her child. This hormone also relieve stress when it is released on the children.

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