Addressing child who lie not to become habit will be very useful to any parents because every child will find the time to behave this way. Therefore, it is necessary the right way to educate a child and get around it so that the lie will not be a habit for our children until he was an adult. To be able to address the child's attitude, however, first of all, we as parents should be able to handle up to the root of the problem. It is intended that the child is no longer exposed himself to tell a lie or at least repeat to lie again. Therefore, the need for knowledge for parents will be contributing factors may be the cause of the child lied and then determine the proper attitude toward the cause factor.There are many reasons why a child lying. These factors can come from within the child's own and even also from external environment including the elderly. Things that might be the trigger for a child to lie among others are:
The existence of an excessive imagination of the child. We can take the example of the story in his mind that has not been fulfilled. Way of addressing a child is lying in this case, we have to give an explanation about the difference in reality and his imagination.
Besides, factor that triggers child to lie is conflict with itself or in other words the desire the child to protect itself so decided to lie. In this case we must be able to trust on child that is better if said truthfully.
From the external environment the child herself is also a trigger for lying. Don't need much because of factors that could possibly come from ourselves as parents. These factors tend to be on the ability of the child to imitate. Occasionally the child may we find the attitude of lie we we don't realize, a small example, we sent our children to say that we are not at home when the phone for us. For it, the way a child is lying facing the next is, we must accustom ourselves to be honest in the future of our children.
Furthermore, we should not immediately accuse lie without evidence. This will make children afraid or even child stress if it will be honest. We should be more open about it because it is very important for the fruit of the heart. We should be able to be a good listener to his reasons to lie and then gave the correct explanation, without having to use emotion. So that we can do in relation to the way of addressing a child who is lying.
